The Parent’s Guide to PANS/PANDAS

Navigating the complexity of PANS and PANDAS as a parent can feel nothing short of a nightmare. Some families are fortunate to have a physician who quickly recognizes the symptoms and helps direct them toward appropriate care. Unfortunately, this is not always the case.

Instead, parents find themselves advocating for sudden, frightening changes in their child—often turning to Google late at night and typing, “What happened to my child?” Their once happy, outgoing, adventurous child—who loved sports and spending time with friends—begins to feel like a shell of themselves. It’s as if the lights are on behind their eyes, but no one is home.

Children become consumed by obsessive rituals or sudden, intense fears—worries about someone breaking into the house at night, or something terrible happening to their parents. Kids who once ate a wide variety of foods may suddenly restrict their food to a few “safe” options, or develop fears around contamination, expiration, or choking. Teenagers who were once independent may find themselves sleeping on their parents’ bedroom floors. School-aged children who once loved school may scream and sob at drop-off.

The Hardest Part: Not Knowing Where to Go

For many families, the hardest part of PANS/PANDAS isn’t even the symptoms—it’s the lack of a clear roadmap.

One reason is that the pipeline between research and real-world medical practice for PANS/PANDAS is notoriously slow. Major institutions such as Stanford University, Columbia University, and Massachusetts General Hospital have dedicated research teams and specialty clinics. The science is moving forward. But that knowledge has not yet fully made its way into mainstream medicine or to many “boots-on-the-ground” providers families see first.

This delay is not unusual in medicine—the average gap between research findings and everyday clinical practice is estimated to be around 17 years. For PANS/PANDAS, however, there are some unique challenges. These conditions ask us to rethink long-held assumptions in psychiatry and recognize that the immune system and mental health are deeply connected. While this shift is happening in research settings, we do not yet have widely available biomarkers or definitive clinical tests to give providers confidence across the board.

Promising diagnostic tools and research findings are actively being developed, with encouraging data emerging as recently as 2025. But translating that progress into routine clinical care takes time—time many families simply don’t have.

The encouraging reality is this: we don’t need to wait for perfect diagnostics to help these kids.

There are extremely effective treatment approaches available now. When PANS/PANDAS is recognized and addressed by an informed, interdisciplinary team, children can begin moving toward recovery. Accurate, thoughtful diagnosis—guided by current research and collaboration across medical and mental health disciplines—can be a powerful starting point for care.

There are many excellent resources available, thanks to dedicated nonprofits and advocacy groups. But parents are often exhausted, overwhelmed, and barely functioning. Sorting through research articles, websites, and forums can feel impossible—especially when your child won’t let you out of their sight long enough to think.

When you’re in crisis mode, the number of tabs open in your browser can feel daunting. You need clarity, direction, and reassurance that you’re not missing something important.

Why This Guide Exists

This guide was created for parents who are living in crisis every day and need someone to step in and say, “Here’s what you need to know right now.”

It puts everything you need to get started in one streamlined place. It consolidates 40+ peer-reviewed research articles I’ve read and dissected; my clinical experience working alongside fellow PANS/PANDAS experts to support families in the Central New York community; and my own lived experience as a parent—into one clear, easy-to-navigate resource accessible with a single click.

It’s a clear, easy-to-read PDF that you can print, highlight, reference, and bring with you to appointments. It does researching, digging, and organizing for you—so your energy can go where it’s needed most: supporting your child and yourself.

This guide is grounded in current research and expert consensus but written in plain, human language that’s easy to digest in bite-sized pieces.

Use this guide as a complement to the many other incredible resources out there—something to simplify things for yourself while you digest everything, one step at a time. It allows you to flip to the page you need, exactly when you need it.

What’s Included

Understand What’s Happening

A clear explanation of PANS and PANDAS symptoms and the science behind
them, including how inflammation and immune changes can affect the brain
and behavior.

Make Sense of Treatment Options

A parent-friendly overview of treatment approaches commonly discussed for PANDAS, including antibiotics, anti-inflammatory strategies, immune-based treatments, and psychotherapy—explained so you can understand what you may hear about and why.

Navigate Care Across Systems

Guidance on moving through medical, mental health, and school systems: what many families consider first, what questions to ask your pediatrician, how to track symptoms, what to look for in a therapist, and common misconceptions about assessment and diagnosis. *This information reflects direct quotations and guidance from the medical literature, not personal medical advice.*

Mental health and Psychiatric Considerations

An overview of the psychiatric side of PANS/PANDAS, including anxiety, OCD, mood changes, and behavior shifts, as well as current expert guidance around medications like SSRIs for PANS/PANDAS kids.

Understand the Research

A summary of the most current PANS/PANDAS research (through 2025), including ongoing studies, presented in a way that is relevant and understandable for parents.

Support the Caregiver

An honest discussion of caregiver burden—naming the exhaustion, fear, and isolation many parents experience—along with research-informed strategies to help you survive the hardest days.

Get Prepared for Advocacy

A clear overview of consensus guidelines for evaluation, testing, and diagnosis so you can walk into appointments feeling more confident and prepared to advocate for your child.

Who This Guide Is For

This guide is for parents and caregivers navigating PANS or PANDAS, as well as school staff, therapists, and other professionals who support these families and want a clear, compassionate understanding of what children and parents are facing.


Everything you need advocate for your child is here—get started today.